Frequently Asked Questions
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You may be cis, trans, queer or not, disabled or otherwise, and of any gender, race, religious persuasion or cultural context - none of this precludes you as a client, except in the case you write “I’m young, white and fit” - this will see your application swiftly binned.
Information about your identity is only important in informing how better I might craft a sensitive and responsive experience for you as an individual.
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Yes! I value responsiveness above all else, and I will humbly meet you wherever you are at. I’ve conducted countless ‘firsts’, from first ever sessions to first scalpel sigils, and find the most fruitful and fulfilling experiences are those that are flexibly subjective and genuinely co-crafted.
Your curiosities may not be as elaborate or extreme as what you see shared across My site or profile, and I am not expecting them to be - I do not desire a monocrop of clients. My deep career satisfaction sprouts from it’s day-to-day diversity. I am interested in your interest, compelled to the edges of your own exploration of self. What does it mean for you to accept discomfort, or to access euphoria? What does it mean for you to endure, to process pain, to cultivate pleasure? What do you predict a potent and profound experience of embodiment might contain for you? This is what matters to Me.
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I have found consulting for various projects across the arts to be an especially affirming appreciation of My unique style and skills, and I will likely be happy to consult for yours too, provided:
• Your project is already making reasonable attempts to be honest and holistic in it’s representation of the s*x working experience or kink community. I am not interested in contributing to pieces that preserve the whorearchy or play into stereotypes that contribute to stigma.• You are not only consulting with white, cis, non-disabled workers/members of community. Otherwise, I will be happy to recommend another worker or kinkster to contact who might better assist you in understanding a more diverse experience.
• You understand that My time and expertise is a resource you will only have access to by paying for it. Unless you are prepared to compensate Me, or anyone else that I direct you toward, you are wasting both of our time.
If you feel confident that you and your project meet these requirements, you may contact me regarding your consulting request at dominacleokali@protonmail.com
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Perhaps. If you are a s*x worker, a member of the BDSM/kink community, or someone adjacent to our communities with reputational credit, I will be happy to consider an interview.
If you fall outside of these categories, you will need to meet the expectations I have outlined above, under ‘Do You Offer Consulting?’
Requests for interviews can be sent to dominacleokali@protonmail.com